The Lust has Busted the Society

It has been a long gap since I posted on blog. Due to shifting to
a new city , a new place of work and change in responsibilities
it has taken me some time to come back to my blog. The reason
for this is to share my following post written one year back . It pained
me when I went through it again for the crime against child girl and woman
in general continues to rise. I just fail to understand the collective evolution part
of evolution which we are undergoing.

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Knowledge is to understand, To understand who you are.

If you know not who you are What's the use of learning?

The aim in learning is To understand God's Truth.

Because without knowledge It is wasted hard labour. ...

~ Yunus Emre

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Do children really use all the knowledge that is given at school level in life ?

Every subject is mostly to cover the knowledge of things around you and does not include you.
Of course , I can only comment about my own country.
There was recently a news item covering some decision in court of law wherein the judge said that "Geeta" should be taught at school level in order to inculcate the child with the knowledge about himself .
I think the question is so much relevant in India of present times where crimes against the weaker sex as it is supposedly called has gone on an alarming rise.
"Mahabharata" was fought for the honour of "Draupadi" the symbol of womanhood .
And Lord Krishna has said that the honour of girl child will be a thing to be worried about in Kali Yuga.
Are we nearing doom with so much crimes happening against girl child?
I just shudder at the plight of young girls undergoing such traumatic experience at the hands of wayward animals in the guise of man .
And then to make the matter at worsest , the innocent girls are being killed.
The respect for the opposite sex has to begun at a very young nascent stage .
Are we failing as a society , as teachers , as parents , as law keepers , as law makers ,
as passive witnesses
that we have to do nothing about it ?

Is it the same country which worships Goddesses , Lakshmi , Parvathi & Saraswati ?

Are not we hypocrite nation which calls our own Nation " Mother India "
and forget to see our own daughters as daughters ?

It is about time that all of us should pray to Goddess Sarasvati the knowledge & wisdom to our children to be responsible citizen of society in this regard !

The Elders doing the crime against woman will have to be punished to set examples!

....ashok "anubhav"

||| The Perfect State of Mind |||

I liked this quote by Pat Riley very much.

 Patrick James "Pat" Riley is an American professional basketball executive, and a former coach and player in the National Basketball Association. 
He says :

There can only be one state of mind 

as you approach any profound test; 

total concentration, 

a spirit of togetherness, 

and strength.

....~Pat Riley

Netting The Mind to Perfectness !

There can be only one state of Mind which is perfect .

And that is when the Mind 

reaches a state of Unison with The Perfect One ! 

The Unison is achieved with Total Concentration of the Mind 

to The Point of Nothingness.

When the Mind is reduced to nothing , 

a spirit of togetherness is felt at all times.

When this feeling being with Him all the times is reached, 

you have achieved that One State of Mind 

which is Perfect for nothing distracts you and 

what attracts you becomes Seeing Him in all attractions.

The Living begins suo moto

when you believe that you are Living here to realize Him.

If you forget to grow this belief in you ,

all other beliefs are just sacrifices.

The fate is terrible because you die without growing the belief.

The terrible cycle is repeated till you sow

the seed of belief that you are here to believe in God and realize Him.

Lord Mahaveer, the Guru of Jainism Religion said that "A  living body is not merely an integration of limbs and flesh 

but it is the abode of the soul
which potentially has perfect perception ,
perfect knowledge perfect power  and perfect bliss."

If you Looking for Perfection ,

Perfect yourself by Looking Within

by isolating the Rule of Ego and 

Handing over the Reins 

of Karma Chariot to the Soul !

No one can do The Perfect Act for You 

but your Soul in the Presence of The Supreme Soul !
The flaws have been collected by us over so many lives.
Mind rules the majority since the basic vices are never shed.
The faults and vices can not be wished away but have to be dealt with the super laser light of the truth.

 Some Perfect Lessons to be Perfect .

The closest to perfection a person ever comes is 

when he fills out a job application form. ~Stanley J. Randall

The requisite for perfection is to have the common sense of how to excel.

The first lesson of common sense is to practice (act) . 
As the old adage says , practice makes a man perfect. 
But perfection is always a moving or rotating target and you always end up with an excellent score near the bull's eye.

So the second lesson for perfection is to have the perfect intentions while the perfection raises its bar.

The third lesson for perfection is to remain motivated while you strive for perfection for being off the target can be demoralizing.

The fourth lesson is to admit your mistakes to yourself while you still learning the KG lessons of tricks to be perfect.

The fifth important lesson is to obliterate the failures in pursuit of perfection by using the eraser of will power and 
begin afresh to rewrite the strategies and go back to the first lesson of practice without wasting any further time. 

As far as this world is concerned ,the world is full of people having perfection for varying moments because of moving targets.
Those who say perfection is not possible
have not encountered perfection yet.

The world would still be lighted by candles ,
had not Edison perfected the art of making a perfect bulb
after coming to know hundreds of ways how not to make a bulb. 

There is no one perfectly Perfect like Him.

But the world is full of partially perfect people who went in pursuit of The Perfect One and His Grace blessed them with many perfections .

That is The Final Lesson of Perfection. 

All other lesson from 6th lesson onwards would precede this lesson. 

...~Ashok "Anubhav"

Silence Decoded

In times of strife and struggle,find solace by going within.Learn the art of going within when you are - 

In times of routine happiness . 

Your faith in Him is your Soul's 
only 100% chance to Realize Him

Silence is never repetitive !

Each time you enter the Silence 

It has something new to offer. 

For The Starter on The Journey of The Self-Search, 
It Is advisable not to resist The Flow of Thoughts- 
Go Where They Take You ; 
at The same Time OBSERVE The Thought & 
Try to Know why It is 
Flowing in A Particular Direction ; 

Once You Know The Why & Wherefores 
of The Thoughts , 
It Is Easy For You to FOLLOW Your Destiny! 

In fact The Destiny of Everyone is The same - 

GOD -REALIZATION . 

God is the friend of silence. 

See how nature--trees, flowers, grass--grows in silence; 

see the stars, the moon, and the sun, 

how they move in silence.

.....~Mother Teresa 

Silence is the only reality 
to Know about all Illusions .

When the Mind is Zeroed Upon 
& Reduced to Nothing ,

Your Consciousness is able to 
break all the barriers 

while moving outward in all directions - 

outside your body , 

outside your room , 

outside your house , 

outside your locality , 

outside your city , 

outside your country , 

outside your continent , 

outside the planet earth ,

outside the Milky Way, 

outside the Universes , 

out there in Nothingness !

Silence is The Only Reality 
which can remove all The Illusions. 

Forgetfulness has to pass the tests of 

Calmness,

Cheerfulness,

Focused one pointedness,

Victory over senses,

and Purity of the Mind !

Only then you become fit to

attain God realization.

In complete Silence ,
all the senses forget their role
& race with each other 

to be able to have some clue of Him.
Begin , Now !
The Silence awaits you to be decoded !

......~Ashok "Anubhav"

Karma is No Chameleon !

Karma is No Chameleon ! 

It is all Compounded Search for the Truth .
Action lays the foundation for the Truth .

If you think you can do , you can .

If you cannot do , you have not thought .

If you think you have to try , you can not do .

Either you do , or do not do.

There is no such thing as trying to do !

Do not pretend to do ! 

There is always ambiguity in our thoughts .

Action brings an end 

to the see saw of the mind to go which way . 

Thinking always precedes action ,

you can not do you have not thought about it. 

Action does not require half attempt. 

It is equivalent to " can not " !

Many times we pretend to do ( work ) ,
it amounts to not doing , 

The "Giving Up " happens in the mind first - 

it is mind which throws "if" and "buts" your way 

and once you become calculative , 

you fall into the traps of quid pro quo of actions 

and the Karma is missed. 

Mostly the Karma is missed for the thought of fruit 

first comes into the mind.

This is a flaw which becomes Blemish on the soul ! 

Beware of the fruit of action 

while you are getting aware of your Karma.

Be persistent -Results are inevitable ! 

Because the Question Paper of Life's Exam Is OUT !

Life is The Exam of Ego - 

Result is For The Soul !

Transformation of The Self 

is The Journey you Have to Take 

to Know All The Answers about Self !

The Questions you should ask yourself are :

How I have to do my karma ?

Where do I go from this world ?

Why am I forgetful of Him ?

Who can help me rid of ego ?

Whom should I look up to for help on The Path ?

Which are the hurdles that 

deter the soul to Shine like the Sun ?

What are The Stations I Arrive at on The Journey ?

Look for what inspires your soul.
You have to go all the way to find 

what transpires in and inspires the soul.

When inspiration does not come to me, 

I go halfway to meet it.

......~Sigmund Freud

No one can inspire you if you do not want to.

When you feel down in Life , 

remember the purpose of your Life is 

to Bloom wherever you are planted.

Gather the Sunshine of courage for life ;

Fertilize the place with His Recall ;

Water your acts with Love and Compassion ;

Prune your Growth with the scissors of Truth ;

Perspire to do your Karma right ;

Let not your Karma miss you in action !

When you exceed your self 

by adding .01 inspiration all 365 days , 

The Karma is compounded !

If you miss your inspiration 

by subtracting inspiration all 365 days ,

you miss it by many whiskers !

If we are more concerned with 

the result of our actions then 

our actions will always end up below par. 

Action helps you cook the cake of result , 

the flavour and the icing on the cake 

is done by least expectations from cooking.

Karma is the seed of action , 

the fruits I keep on taking all the lives !

Some seeds fructify in the now ,some take lives long. 

What you call luck is the old seeds 

fructifying after lives long .

I wonder if it is His Concern - 

The Success and The Failure .

He leaves everything in our hands , 

once He has given us hands to act.

What is my failure becomes another's success 

and what is my success becomes another's failure.

Collectively by our actions , 

collectively we cause and effect 

each other's failure and success.

So my poetic appeal to you 

Oh! The Daughter and the Son of The Infinite Sun ! 

Cease to be a mere product of Excuses 

Stop taking whatsoever -decisions 

Refuse to be a slave of circumstances 

Block the negative thought as it rises

Act in the Now to make the future happen

Take a plunge in the Pool of the Universe !

Get out of the nth excuses called circumstances

Do not finite yourself to the mind's narrow lane.

You are the Son of The Infinite Sun !

Do not Limit yourself to the Mind's Cabin !

Do not just stand there at the Shores

Be there at the centre of the Universe 

Patent the Universe with your Karma !

.......~Ashok "Anubhav"

Alarming Mornings to A Balanced Life

Our Body is a Unique Construction . The five Elements in isolation do not go along with each other . These 5 elements have various characteristics. look what happens when air combined with water at great speed- tsunami ! I am trying to make a symbolic representation of Physical & spiritual nature.No religious Principles involved here! The whole ayurveda science works on the Principles of Imbalance of the five elements in the Body & the treatment .Whatever food you take would not be digested without the presence of water & fire inside.Life starts with the intake of BREATH.The First Element to Leave as The Last Sigh is the Air- What happens to the Body after that everyone knows.Pranayam is Management of Air element of The Body.Similar Practices by Yogis helped them to retain body for longer periods by balancing various elements.It is essential to regulate your life by managing the time you have into personal, spiritual and officeor business life.The priority of the balance in three is never equal and keeps on changing as you grow.My advice is to keep it in the order of Personal , Spiritual and Work.For managing your personal life only leads to physical health which in turn leads to a better spiritual life.An unhealthy person can not withstand the discipline of spiritual life.The key to success to allthree rings with the alarm clock since all the three have their dedicated allocated hours.As Benjamin Franklin said "You will find the key to success under the alarm clock.” 

Time management and meeting the deadlines brings the success alive. It is wise to divide big tasks and targets into smaller ones and then sticking to the plan of meeting the daily goals. Never be in awe of the big size of the targets. As you progress daily , the gap is reduced and you can not hurry the progress as each journey of each task begins with the first little success. It is good to begin the day early by pressing on the morning alarm button. After college studies , I set the morning alarm only when I have to travel to catch the scheduled mode of travel. A point of time came in my life , when I set the morning alarm regularly for many months in continuity as I began to prepare for The Travel Within .It is beyond doubt that the dawn is the most appropriate time for beginners who want to make inroads into travelling within by meditation. I used the morning alarm to get up in the ambrosial hours of the morning before sunrise for months altogether then the body clock adjusted to the timings and sleep pattern settled down into the routine. God is so generous and accommodating if you have set an appointment to meet Him ,He is graceful to hold the hand of your body clock to make you get up at the appointed hours. I always looked forward to those early wake up calls which helped the Awakenings .Imitate nature so that you can find your true nature.Time is a dressmaker specializing in alterations.Soul has come for a ramp walk on the earth under the glares of the Supreme Soul.

Nature evolves constantly and changes every moment .Nature does constant value stream mapping.We are no different from Nature.

But we do not even attempt Value Stream Mapping even randomly.

Value stream mapping is a lean-management method for analyzing the current state and designing a future state for the series of events that take a product or service from its beginning through to the customer.Our mind is The Master Salesman selling us This world and we are hooked to the Mind.

Our Mind is responsible for Misplaced Value Stream Mapping. He has designed the Mind in such a way.It makes us always looking for some clue, motive and always act with aim , pattern or reason the mind offers.Mind can never evolve itself but in one way , it can do a great service in human evolution by making it act as a slave of senses instead of it being a master.Once reined in mind does constant value stream mapping for the soul and evolution of human is evolution of mind only by changing the direction on His Path without changing its inherent nature.Keep your goals of personal , spiritual and work in mind and like a Good Captain adjust the sails without losing sight of the destination while living your day to day life.Remember that you can not sail in two directions at the same time.You may sail against the storms but does not let adversity harm your confidence.You have to keep the mast of morale flying high in the winds of adversity and propel the boat of life in the direction you want with grit, determination and persistence in the journey of life. 

.....~Ashok "Anubhav"

Hunger Games of An Impostor Mind

Are you living only on and for Weekends ?

I find Web-world full of messages and posts
lauding and looking forward to weekends and Sundays.

So many pics are used to depict one's feelings

for the Saturday and Sunday.

Days are manmade and sunshine made by the Sun.

Sun does not take a rest and forgets to shine on any day and

so should you shine on all days.

Shine to the fullest to live when you are working to

make your living.How to remember to live

while you make a living is
in your hands rather more in mind !

Love what you do in all conditions, circumstances and work culture
for your status, net worth and your position
in life depends upon it.

If it is not to your liking and making you forget
to live before weekends -
you are the weak link who has to change
conditions, circumstances and work culture.
Do not Forget to Shine every moment to Live On !

Wear the Heart of Others on yourself

to Know where your actions or demands are PINCHING .

"I'm " = I am(ego) ... in the IMPOSE -is the Main Culprit i.e.

EGO which acts like A Drunken Monkey

is jumping from one Branch of desire to another & creating A Nuisance for those around You ! One desire after the other POSES its Head into The Life-Frame of Others-

Hope your DESIRES bring A CHEESE Effect in Others Lives!!

Mind is an IMPOSTOR who always tries to take an advantage of Others  -   Let it OUT LAY the Foundation of Happiness in others!

The Law of GIVING gives you IT Back-

your Heart has It in abundance-

Don't HOLD Back because as great Carl Jung said :

Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves.

....~Carl Jung.

Under the influence of mind,

our understanding of others is always

clouded and we are irritated

till we reach to the inner side of us

that is where the Truth is found.

Once the mind is worn off by

persistent pealing and peaking into it,

the irritation turns into

admiration or dislike of action of others

depending upon its essence of truth or falsehood.

The dislike or irritability by others is replaced by

that of theiractions without any hatred for the person.

Once you reach this stage, you have reached

an understanding of yourselves.

Every today consists of the same wealth of 86400 moments for everyone.Is not that Great that everyone is equally wealthy in
Time's Bank.

OOOOOOOOOO

86400 is all you have got for a day !You are forced to withdraw all of it moment by moment.28800 max is consumed by sleep.Be there in your Dreams - Sweet and Deep.3600 is debited by getting ready for the day.Be there in the task one by one without multitasking.7200 is spent in travelling to and fro.Let not Mind travel to past to what has happened in the near or far yesterdays or hurry to future to the morrows - you travel only when you are there in travelling, look around and absorb your surroundings.7200 is consumed while you eat or drink.Eat while you eat ,drink while you drink or gulp down while you gulp. More than half of Every Today is depleted without your knowing and you are left around 39600 or say 40000 moments to deal with when your mind bats and sends 4's to past or 6's out there in the future beyond the boundary line of the Present.You are left with 40000 to relish,enjoy , work and celebrate.Use them wisely,spend them in now only and look forward to the next 86400 pocket money of the next.Happiness is all about Mind's response to challenges in Life. It becomes yours when you know which response to keep or to ignore.

......~Ashok "Anubhav"

!! Gaining from the Losses !!

Not everything will go as per your plans

and what you expect in your life.

This is why you need to drop expectations and

go with the flow of life.

Live Life as it comes by celebrating the moment

to flow with life.  

Honesty and honor

go together as package.

Once lost it is difficult to regain.

For the biggest loss ,

there is no one else to blame.

You have to draw the policy codes

and you have to obey.

Be Witness to Your Karma.

When you win , you can still do better

and that only you know.

When you lose,you know others do not know

how much you have put in your efforts.

Losses are invisible milestones in the course of life.

These losses remove the stones

from the path for future wins.

It is more important that the losses

do not make you lose your heart in whatever you do.

On the LIGHTER note,when you come out

of the impact of outcomes

of your actions and dedicate your actions

to The Omni-doer , your Karma always wins .

Be Witness to your Karma to Do it The Right Truthful Way.

No one else can Witness your own Karma better -

Even He Witness along with you from your Heart's abode.

And on This LIGHTER Note ,

it is all a Winning Streak on His Path.

American essayist and poet,Ralph Waldo Emerson

sums up the contrasts of losses and gains.                                            

“For everything you missed, you have gained something else,

and for everything you gain, you lose something else."

......~Ralph Waldo Emerson

When you miss the Goal, you get the Experience!

When you get the Experience, you lose your Ignorance!

But Who is the Real you who Gains or Losses?

Which are the Gains or Losses

Which becomes your constant companion?

Or are you in a Forgetfulness State

Who has lost your Entity, your true state?

The Soul is the True State

which takes shelter in the body to experience this World

With the sole aim of realization of God!

Therefore, till the Realization,

everything on His Path is Gains.

What you may think is your gain in this world

may be really missing the Bull's Eye by miles!!

All the Destinations reached in time remain in time &

are no gains in the spiritual sense.

When you work to gain the Treasure of Truthfulness

That is the Only Gain which accumulates with your Lives.

In that sense, the Losses of this World become

the Gains of His World.

The Ignorance in the eyes of this world of your

True Worth is applauded in HIS World.

The Balance of Justice always tilts

in favour of The Truth in His world.

About this world the less said the better !

But who is Seeker of Truth never bothers

what the world says about The Truth.

So Try to Gain a Foothold in THE TRUTH. & Lose-

There is Nothing to Lose !

Success in life comes when you simply refuse to give up,

with goals so strong that obstacles , failure and loss only

act as motivation to upgrade your skills, planning and

put more than 110% of efforts to reach your goals.

All the so-called "secrets of success"

will not work unless you do.

The "secrets of success "

do contain some "short cuts" .

If applied the success is also cut short

in due course of time.

Celebrate Life !

There is No Bigger Celebration in Life

than Celebrating Life !

If you are Missing the Celebration yourself

how can He Join !.

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..... ~Ashok “Anubhav”